Life in the City of Angels: Men Don’t Cry

It started as a little stream of emotion while watching James Blunt’s song, Monster. The song is about James’ father Colonel Charles Blunt, who has stage four chronic kidney disease, and how the singer will have to “chase the monsters away” when he passes. 

“And while you’re sleeping I’ll try to make you proud

So, Daddy, won’t you just close your eyes?

Don’t be afraid, it’s my turn

To chase the monsters away.” 

Those heartfelt lyrics got me, and got me good. I traveled back in time to the night that I held my dads hand and watched him take his last breath. After all these years, I purged with such deep emotions my body gave out and all I could do is lay in bed for hours. So men do cry……. just in private.

FYI, James can hold off chasing monsters away as his father Charles is doing well after receiving an organ donation in 2020.

1 Comment

  1. That was beautiful. Weeping here. I LOVE James Blunt and love when men can emote, it’s a beautiful thing. The loss of our dad’s leaves us a little different than we were before.

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